My little sister's wedding is just around the corner. As a big sister all I can help is to ease my parent's burden in making my sister's wedding run smoothly at the wedding's day. My sister can be quite a stubborn kid sometimes.I know she have a strict budget on the wedding but to help ease the flow shouldn't she allocate some of the money for these petty things? Such as having a PA system and a DJ on the day. Or having a professional photographer for captures the wedding pictures? I mean for me it is a main thing. But then for her it just something that she shouldn't focus on.
Saying is much simpler than having to do the task. She just can't imagine on the day itself. I guess I being such a caring sister until she became very pampered in a way she thinks everything will just be in place because she have her older and wiser sister ( in the event experience) to help her for the wedding.
I am not the most perfect person to come whenever an event happened. I am just concerned and don't want the previous problem ( at her engagement's day) arise again or worst! Sometimes I just think she is not that matured enough to handle the wedding. Haish. I shouldn't said that. I should have faith in her.
I must say to prepare the wedding from afar is really stressful. Lucky for me, mine is almost half way done. I just prepared it accordingly and hopefully it will be as planned. In sha Allah. Being outstation for two months have been an agony as far from any telecommunication coverage and internet while my business and wedding preparation is only accessible via internet.
Plus having a fiancé that is 24-hours busy kept me going with this workaholic attitude. We seldom met since I have been working at Kuantan. The only time we met at event; working as a team for our business. Ironic right? Now he have been raised as senior engineer at his workplace and become more and more busier than ever. All I can do is to do the same. So I can be raise as senior nutritionist. So we both can become successful in our carrier life.
This week have been such a very demanding and stressful week I must say. Having to interview nepal's workers and finding respondent that is refused to cooperate really exhausted. Being racist also as I have to interview Chinese resident. Haish. I really felt so different compared to others rural area. I guess this is not rural area. More into suburban area. Because they are reluctant to help and give information.
Well despite all the problems, we manage to handle the problems. I guess teamwork really rocks!
And spending a few nights at your grandmother's house really connecting or strengthening a bond between grandmother and grandchild. When looking my grandmother's jolt it just keep me realise she needs a company to help her insanity.